It's easy to get pulled into the behaviors and customs of this world, without even knowing it...or knowing it but not having the courage to fight against the norm. It's always easier to give in and be like everyone else. God encourages us to work hard to transform our mind so that there isn't even a struggle to begin with.
With our minds renewed, our eyes focused UP (not within or toward everyone else), and our heart intentionally prepared as His home (with as much time and detail and effort as we put into perfecting our earthly home)...wow, what a difference life would be. It's time.
Romans 12:2 Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.